i call him pakde pentul since i was a child. that's how my mom told me about his name.
he came today and i ask him to accompany me to dad's grave. it was a good day to go and pray to cemetery for all those who leave the world. the day was kamis malam jumat legi.
back to home, pakde gave me a lot of advise about renovating plan, and we will start it after dad's 40day memorial pray.
i take him as my god-parent now.