when you are about getting married

get married is so exciting, isn't it? after all the journeys and efforts, the happiness and broken hearted you've been through, you finally meet and choose someone as "the one". you both decide to get married, make an announcements to the family and start the wedding preparation.

when all the preparation for D-day finished. all the dramas (internal or external) have been solved. there's something inside urge you with the question like, "are you sure with all of this?", "are you sure you're going to marry him/her?" and "what will happen after the wedding party?", etc.

that kind of questions will put the bride/groom-to-be in a situation or phase like self-doubt, want to run away from all of it, panic attack and other negative thoughts.

my opinion, keep praying and stay positive. such a cliche, huh? it is. because there's no manual book about it. every bride/groom-to-be will create their own manual book to over calmed this situation.